Sexual moods

Its funny how different things effect sexual moods, for example when I am sick I am as horny as hell yet my dear darling hubby is well sick and unable to do anything. Though one thing I have found out when sick I can't hide it from John, especially if we make love, he has a very strange method for taking temperatures. Its a bit like checking the oil, but of so fun.

There are many things I do to get John in the mood, but at the end of the day it all comes down to if he is willing to get in the mood or not. If he isn't interested then it doesn't matter how much I flash my tits at him. He is one of the few guys I know that when it comes to getting him in to the mood, you have to treat him like a woman and woo him in to the mood.
We joke about the sexual stereotypes being reversed, me being the guy and him being the woman, but in seriousness I know its an important fact to keep in mind and let our other partners know. As knowing what buttons to push is always important.

The same goes for sexual techniques as we have found they effect the mood as well. Altering the desired affect. My dear man is not one who enjoys lots of pain, and this causes loss of desire or lack of mood.
But when it comes to John the rules of what works and doesn't changes all the time, but over all they are consistent, if rule A is in affect today then rule B doesn't apply and tomorrow they might be swapped. Over all they never change, just which one applies does.